
I’m grateful for a small garden success. Seeds I planted around New Year’s Day are sprouting in one covered bed. In the other, just a few sprouts so far, but they had a setback in that big wind storm when their cover got blowed away. Finally found it though, the other day, out in the woods. Grateful it’s now back over them, and hoping they didn’t get killed in the cold nights the cover was missing.


I’m grateful for the Urbikany tomato in the sunroom that keeps on giving! I harvested two small ripe fruits the other day for a magnificent cheese sandwich, as three more ripen, even more grow green, and flowers bloom. Amazing! I will definitely play with more of these this summer.

I’m grateful for my fast little girl, who comes when called. I knew she was out there this time, because I was too; but today she disappeared while I was sitting outside on the phone, and was nowhere to be seen when I was ready to go in. I called just a couple of times and she came flying around the bend again, panting, racing to me. It was impossible to scold her for slipping through the gate when she came so promptly and eagerly.

I’m grateful for another successful Teddy Roosevelt’s Clove Cake. I’ve almost got it down! Cooked just a couple of minutes too long this time so it was a little dry, but the rise and crust were perfect. I was looking forward to sharing some of this with a friend who was supposed to stop by yesterday but he didn’t show. It wasn’t like him to not text, so I figured something urgent had come up. But I was staggered to learn that evening just how urgent: he had suffered a heart attack on his way, and undergone emergency surgery. I’m grateful that he survived, that he was able to get the rescue and medical attention that he needed, and that last I heard he was doing well and expected to recover fully. It brought home like a slap in the face the exact fragility and transience of our fleeting lives that I wrote about last time.

All these quotidian gratitudes pale in comparison to the gratitude of someone surviving a heart attack; and so best not to compare. Best to savor the flavors of every day, humble or grand; each success, delight, or genuine connection made all the more meaningful through awareness of its singular impermanence.











